Ready for Adoption?
Adoption Network Law Center
Adoption Network Law Center
Want to Adopt? Click here.
Click here to be helped in California!
Adoption Network Law Center
Pregnant? Click here.
Adoption Network Law Center
Open Adoption Blog

04/23/08

The Parts that Made me Cringe in Juno

Posted by : Coley S. in Open Adoption Blog at 04:17 pm , 377 words, 352 views  
Categories: Book/Film/Television
In my last post, I wrote about the movie Juno and the few positive points that I found in the movie. I found far more negative aspects to the movie than positive ones. Below are a few of the issues in the movie that made me cringe.

1. They really did not go into any issues that birthmothers face post adoption. The movie was pretty much over once Juno had her baby. I’m guessing this is because it wouldn’t make very good entertainment but to not really show or mention that at all gives a false impression to young girls who are watching this movie.

2. When telling her parents that she is pregnant and making an adoption plan, Juno says that after the baby is born they can all just “pretend it never happened.” That part really got to me! Any birthmother will tell you that you can not pretend the birth of your child never happened. Even most birthmothers from the closed adoption era who were told over and over to forget their child, never forgot their children.

SPONSOR

3. Juno only cried twice! Once during her pregnancy after learning that the adoptive parents’ marriage was in jeopardy and then in the hospital after her baby was born. I know I cried way more than twice even before Charlie was ever born.

4. The adoptive parents were portrayed as being really desperate, especially the adoptive mother. If I were an adoptive parent, I think I would have been a little annoyed at the representation of adoptive parents that was portrayed.

5. The adoptive mother asked Juno if she would like any other type of compensation aside from medical! At this point, I really wanted to throw something at the TV! Juno responded with something about she wasn’t selling her baby, yet continued to move forward with this adoptive couple.

Honestly, there were more parts in the movie that made me cringe but I just touched on a few. I really think the movie should come with a huge disclaimer reading something like, “If you are considering adoption, do not use this movie as an accurate representation of what making an adoption plan is all about.”

--
Photo Credit

Related Posts:
The Few Positives in Juno
Juno
August Rush

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: dekko [Member]
I don't think Number 2 is fair, as it's something said by Juno early in the film when she still has little idea as to what the pregnancy process entails. It's perfectly in character for her to be flippant about it, and I think that the movie, on the contrary, disputes her claim that she can maintain that the preganancy "never happened." She's clearly gone through quite a bit, and it's understood that it will stick with her. I also don't think it's fair to chide the film for ending after the adoption--that's the story of the film. Following Juno coping with the post-adoption process would drag the film into tedium and have no real conclusion. Yes, that's life, but that's not movies.
PermalinkPermalink 04/24/08 @ 08:00
Comment from: Coley S. [Member] Email · http://open.adoptionblogs.com
Following Juno coping with the post-adoption process would drag the film into tedium and have no real conclusion. Yes, that's life, but that's not movies.

Yes, the movie is meant for entertainment purposes and in my first post about Juno I said that.

Thanks for sharing your opinion.
PermalinkPermalink 04/24/08 @ 08:20
Comment from: sgk [Member]
I haven't seen this movie as it is too close to the bone.I would agree that there is much post adoption that birthmothers face that the public would not know about or understand
PermalinkPermalink 04/24/08 @ 13:34
Comment from: orchid1376 [Member]
I think when the adoptive mom asked about compensation, she was testing Juno to make sure there would be no scamming. I am an adoptive parent, sometimes you just get so scared.
PermalinkPermalink 04/25/08 @ 16:55
Leave a Comment: You need to login to leave comments.:

Login | Register

Login To AdoptionBlogs.com

Search

Sponsors

Categories

AdoptHelp
A Child's Waiting
AdoptHelp

Misc

Subscribe to Open Adoption Blog

 Enter your email address:
 

 

Who's Online?

  • Julie
  • Guest Users: 111