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10/25/07

Love Thursday: My Babies aren’t Babies Anymore!

Posted by : Coley S. in Open Adoption Blog at 10:38 am , 349 words, 109 views  
Categories: Parenting/Birthparenting
It’s Noah’s eleventh birthday today and Charlie is catching up to him as he just turned six last month. It’s so weird to write that, so very odd to think I have two children, two wild, rowdy boys (maybe not living in my home, but two children just the same) that are eleven and six years old!

Can someone please explain to me where the time went? Better yet, can someone please stop the clock so they will not grow any older! I can remember each of my boys being born, just as if it were yesterday. Noah barely weighed four pounds and twelve ounces while Charlie, who was born later in pregnancy than Noah was smaller at only four pounds and six ounces! Now these guys are HUGE! Noah’s tall and skinny, while Charlie is shorter and stockier.

I’m proud and scared all at the same time that my children are the ages that they are; proud because we (me, them, family, extended family, etc.) have come along way. We’ve all worked together to mold both of these babies into the little boys they are and the big boys they are quickly becoming! We’ve made it through trials and tribulations and ups and downs. It hasn’t been smooth, but what journey is? It’s the bumps along the way that we really remember and learn and grow from isn’t it?

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At the same time, as being proud of these boys, I’m scared. Ok, I’d admit that I’m terrified! I’m terrified because the harder stuff is coming. As both of my kids grow and mature and begin to learn about things in life, I am going to be faced with more questions (from each of them), more explanations, and more talks about the “hard stuff.” It’s not going to be easy, but I know that somehow someway, God will see us through it just as he has until now.

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More Love Thursday Posts:
A Trip to the Apple Orchard
The Love Letter
Kindergarten Diploma

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Comment from: Sunbonnet Sue [Member] Email
don't blink, another ten years will sneak by!
PermalinkPermalink 10/25/07 @ 15:57
Comment from: Brittanys1stmom [Member] Email · http://www.birthmombuds.com/showcase_alicia.htm
Coley, that is another beautiful post. Yes, kids grow so fast. I can figure how to stop them from doing that. Yes, every journey in life has a lot of bumps and ups and downs. I totally agree, God will get us through everything.
PermalinkPermalink 10/25/07 @ 23:21
Comment from: mamaras [Member] Email · http://www.geocities.com/vicki_miranda/index.html
Ah, yes...the times they fly by, when it comes to our babies! My three girls are all grown up now, but in my eyes- they will always be babies! My babies. No matter how old they get, they will never stray too far from Mom! :-)
At least mine don't, and I thank God each and every day for that.
Never worry about your boys, Coley...with a wonderful Mom like you, your boys will always be close to Mom!There's nothing like Mama's!
May God bless you always, my friend.
PermalinkPermalink 10/26/07 @ 01:30
Comment from: mamaras [Member] Email · http://www.geocities.com/vicki_miranda/index.html
Oh, by the way...I completely forgot to let you know who I am..I am a proud member of BMB's...of which Coley is the owner. My name is Vicki, and I am the proud Birthmom of a beautiful daughter named Melissa. We were reunited October 23rd, 2003, and we have a wonderful relationship. The only thing that is hard on us is the geographical distance between us. We live 2500 plus miles away from each other, and it would be so nice if we lived closer. Maybe one day! God willing.
PermalinkPermalink 10/26/07 @ 01:49
Comment from: mamaras [Member] Email · http://www.geocities.com/vicki_miranda/index.html
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY NOAH! YOU ARE A BIG BOY! ~SMILE~~HUGSSSSSS!
PermalinkPermalink 10/26/07 @ 01:51
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