Comments on: Hidden Birthfamily Loss http://open.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/hidden-birthfamily-loss Blog with information on open adoption. Includes advice, tips, concerns, and news articles about open adoption. Birthparent and Adoptive parent blog on open adoption. Articles, information, and news about the open adoption experience. Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:44:09 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Coley S. http://open.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/hidden-birthfamily-loss/comment-page-1#comment-1468 Coley S. Sat, 21 Jul 2007 20:43:39 +0000 http://open-adoptio.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/07/20/hidden-birthfamily-loss#comment-1468 I agree with Jan! It's going to be difficult on her when she finds out the truth. <br /> <br /> I sometimes think that as birth parents we overlook the pain and loss that other family members may feel. I know I didn't think about it prior to making an adoption plan. I agree with Jan! It’s going to be difficult on her when she finds out the truth.

I sometimes think that as birth parents we overlook the pain and loss that other family members may feel. I know I didn’t think about it prior to making an adoption plan.

]]> By: soblessed http://open.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/hidden-birthfamily-loss/comment-page-1#comment-1467 soblessed Sat, 21 Jul 2007 20:20:14 +0000 http://open-adoptio.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/07/20/hidden-birthfamily-loss#comment-1467 Oh, Deb, how awful. Your poor neice....I would be shattered to find out at that age I was adopted. Your whole life lived with a belief that is not stretched, if not shattered. That is tough and my heart and my prayers go out to both of you. Best of luck!! Oh, Deb, how awful. Your poor neice….I would be shattered to find out at that age I was adopted. Your whole life lived with a belief that is not stretched, if not shattered. That is tough and my heart and my prayers go out to both of you. Best of luck!!

]]> By: mariah http://open.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/hidden-birthfamily-loss/comment-page-1#comment-1469 mariah Sat, 21 Jul 2007 20:17:00 +0000 http://open-adoptio.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/07/20/hidden-birthfamily-loss#comment-1469 Deb, I appreciate your sharing of this difficult experience. Thank you. Deb, I appreciate your sharing of this difficult experience. Thank you.

]]> By: AdoptionBlogs Editor http://open.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/hidden-birthfamily-loss/comment-page-1#comment-1466 AdoptionBlogs Editor Sat, 21 Jul 2007 13:01:48 +0000 http://open-adoptio.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/07/20/hidden-birthfamily-loss#comment-1466 Wow. This is just mind-boggling in this day and age.<br /> This has had to be hard on you. I'm so sorry. Wow. This is just mind-boggling in this day and age.
This has had to be hard on you. I’m so sorry.

]]> By: Jan Baker http://open.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/hidden-birthfamily-loss/comment-page-1#comment-1465 Jan Baker Sat, 21 Jul 2007 06:53:34 +0000 http://open-adoptio.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/07/20/hidden-birthfamily-loss#comment-1465 Grrrr! Not telling someone that they are adopted is so cowardly. Watching your brother's children be adopted out had to rip you up. How horrible for you! Grrrr! Not telling someone that they are adopted is so cowardly. Watching your brother’s children be adopted out had to rip you up. How horrible for you!

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