http://open.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/death-and-open-adoption-from-a-birthmom Blog with information on open adoption. Includes advice, tips, concerns, and news articles about open adoption. Birthparent and Adoptive parent blog on open adoption. Articles, information, and news about the open adoption experience. Thu, 18 Mar 2010 05:10:43 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://open.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/death-and-open-adoption-from-a-birthmom/comment-page-1#comment-1654 Deb Donatti Tue, 16 Oct 2007 04:07:31 +0000 http://open-adoptio.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/10/15/death-and-open-adoption-from-a-birthmom#comment-1654 Scarlet, Even in an open adoption, the relationship between the child and the birthfamily (who may only visit once a year) could be a much more drastic change, than for them to go to the adoptive grandparents, whom they may see daily.<br /> I would say choose someone you child already sees very often, and who can meet the needs for retaining the same level of visits with birthfamily too. Scarlet, Even in an open adoption, the relationship between the child and the birthfamily (who may only visit once a year) could be a much more drastic change, than for them to go to the adoptive grandparents, whom they may see daily.
I would say choose someone you child already sees very often, and who can meet the needs for retaining the same level of visits with birthfamily too.

]]> http://open.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/death-and-open-adoption-from-a-birthmom/comment-page-1#comment-1653 scarlet moon 13 Mon, 15 Oct 2007 23:52:38 +0000 http://open-adoptio.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/10/15/death-and-open-adoption-from-a-birthmom#comment-1653 personally, if the aparents die, then the birthparents should have some say, if they are in a postion to. About where their birth child is going. It would be stressful for the child to be sent off to more non related people. If the birthparent/s are able and have a relationship with the child, how do you explain to that child that they cannot go to the birthmom should amom and dad die? personally, if the aparents die, then the birthparents should have some say, if they are in a postion to. About where their birth child is going. It would be stressful for the child to be sent off to more non related people. If the birthparent/s are able and have a relationship with the child, how do you explain to that child that they cannot go to the birthmom should amom and dad die?

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